If there's one thing that anti-fat discourse seems to all have in common, it's that fat people are expected to keep ourselves in a constant state of discomfort. Think about it. Fashion We're expected to wear things that fit specific ways, whet ...
But Maybe I Don’t WANT to Look Smaller
Without a doubt, when you hear fashion advice, the number one goal will be to make yourself look smaller. They may mask it in other terms, like "flattering" or "longer and leaner," but the idea is the same: conceal any hint of fatness. Here's the deal ...
Should I Cover My [Insert Body Part Here]?
The short answer: only cover up if you want to. This always bears repeating. Wear what you want and cover what you want, because you want to, not because someone else says you have to. (Obvious exception for work/school dress codes, but also let’s not ...
I Really, Really Hate the Word “Flattering”
To me, the word flattering should mean “what I personally feel looks best on me, based on my own personal standards for my appearance.” Unfortunately, in our thin-obsessed fashion world, it has become code for “smaller.” I hate -- like, really, really, R ...
Rock a Minimalist Style at Any Size
Lately I've been really into sleek, minimalist style. The clean lines, sophisticated colors, and simple-yet-elegant cuts really speak to me, and I love how it looks effortless but still fashionable. The problem is, those looks are not often sold to plus s ...
My Job is Not a Contest Prize
I just came across this on Twitter: I'm not going to link to the company (even though it's mentioned in the image) because I don't want to give them views for this. I am so sick of brands using contests to hire people in creative fields. Writing, ar ...
Low Maintenance or Sloppy?
Know what’s super cute? Being low maintenance, apparently. Leggings (affiliate link), tees, and big comfy sweaters are all in style and considered chic. Know who doesn’t get to take part in that look? Fat people. The woman pictured is just wearing jea ...